Rabbi Jesus told Mariam, "Remember; I have as many ways of approaching hearts as there are people; no soul is the same. Respect Me - and follow Me."
The work of God in each soul is different. That is a blessing, not a problem.
In the same way, the work of parenting or mentoring for each individual is different. Each person is individual, unique, precious. Let us respect that fact. Let us respect each individual. Let us trust in God to inspire us and grant grace so we may undertake parenting and mentoring to the best of our ability.
Sometimes, though, as humans we just can't do it. Some days we may feel absolutely exhausted. We may be ill, or experiencing financial struggle. We may feel overburdened, or simply just be at the end of our tether. When we don't know what to do - well, just let go, and let God. Turn to Him in prayer and hand situations over to Him as Master of your household.
You'll be amazed how straight God can write on our sometimes crooked lines.
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