Mariam was verbally insulted and sworn at when she attempted to help another.
Mother Maria told her, "Sometimes silence is the only answer that you can give with dignity."
We cannot fight every argument to which we are invited. Sometimes (only if the circumstances are appropriate), silence is the only answer through which you may be able to maintain your equilibrium. Swift reaction and insult back by yourself, may only escalate the situation.
Great wisdom and prudence is required to discern each happening. Bullying should never be tolerated. Victimisation and harassment are wrong, and also should not be tolerated. These situations need to be dealt with through the appropriate channels.
However, at times in our lives, we experience unexpected harsh words at the hands of those who struggle with issues such as hormonal episodes, dementia, confusion, addiction, difficulties with anger management or side effects from necessary medication. It behoves us to deal with these situations with prudence and calm. A good way to defuse a situation is by using non-violent crisis intervention techniques.
Image courtesy of ChatGPT with CN Whittle "Comfort in a sacred garden"
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